Lose It

"Sex could KILL you
Do you know what the human body goes through,
when you have sex?
Pupils dilate, arteries constrict
core temperature rises, heart races
blood pressure sky rockets,
respiratory becomes rapid and shallow,
the brains fires bursts of electrical impulses
from nowhere to nowhere,
and secretions spit out of every gland,
and the muscles tenses spasms
like you are lifting three times your body weight,
it's violent, it's ugly, and its messy.
and if God didnt make it unbelievably fun,
the human race would have died out eons ago."
-Allison Cameron, HOUSE M.D.

I have also read or heard somewhere:
that during sex,
you lose yourself,
and you find yourself again afterwards.
i think this is what it means:
you lose yourself in forgetting your insecurities
being naked, bold & raw with no dressed-up pretentions
you lose yourself in trying to please your partner
engaging your mind fully in communicationg
you lose yourself in your own pleasure
forgetting everything else, except your sensations.
you find yourself in being happy & contented
being gratified ,even for a moment, in its sincerest form.
you find yourself knowing what you want
whether it is what you gave or what has been given that you enjoyed.
you find yourself communicating
not only to your partner but also to yourself.

many times before, we've heard the phrase
"Lose Yourself"
but people often times misconceive this idea
as being out of control and out of bounds
when in fact,
this means to set yourself lose
because although control is good at times
Control is not good all the time.
especially when it comes to matters of the heart
wherein we should cease to use our minds
because in actuality,
our bodies are already doing something about it
even without your asking for it to,
but the implementation of this would need your consent
and thats where the trouble begins.
i bet you've heard people say,
"Believe your gut".
they have a reason for saying it.
stop thinking.
stop analyzing.
morever, stop over-analyzing.
don't swim against the current
flow with it.
even if a fall is ahead,
you would never know where it leads you.
it might be where you should be.